As 2019 was drawing to a close, I found myself wrestling with doubts, insecurities and lots of anger. I was sad and frustrated. I felt misunderstood and overlooked.
I decided to embark on a journey of assisted introspection. In a short space of time, I began to perceive some realities about my journey into mothering, and better understood the choices that I make as a mother. It has been an utterly significant time of grace and growth.
As we head towards the middle of January, and the holiday season is firmly behind us, I feel rested (well kind of) and ready to start working on my dreams for this year. It has been a long while since I’ve been able to focus on myself – I am looking forward to it.
Before I get started on me, I want to share something with you. Here are a few of the truths that I have recently discovered:
Saying hello to parenthood does often mean saying goodbye to many of the things you once enjoyed. Such as uninterrupted conversations, New Year’s Eve parties, dinner with friends at fancy restaurants, or the choice to sleep late – to mention a few. It is perfectly normal to feel sad at times and mourn the loss of the things you once loved doing. Doing so does not mean you love your children any less
Raising children is your most important job. Nothing else compares. Therefore, when it comes to decisions on how you choose to parent your children, do not be discouraged by the judgement of others. Do what you believe is best and trust your instincts. You do not have to be perfect.
May 2020 be a year of great things for us all. Growth. Courage. Adventure. Let’s be ready to embrace the new things, say farewell to the old, and always remember… every day is a brand new day.